We all have different ideas about what maturity is, we all try to define it in our own way.
Actually what is maturity?
In my opinion, when someone is well aware of what s/he is doing, s/he knows what s/he is doing is whether necessary or not. In our life, whatever we are doing, all matters. Every single action matters, through all our actions we all are being judged, whether we're mature or not.
Maturity keeps us away from doing something unnecessary. It can be some unnecessary lines, or unnecessary gestures or postures etc. It can be anything which is unnecessary. The whole journey of being mature is a life long learning process. Doing something unnecessary is mostly proven to be a mistake, and learning from those mistakes helps us to be mature a level up.
Learning is a never ending process, it's keeps going on and on. That's why no one is fully mature. Everyone is comparatively mature from one another. One day activities can't decide whether you're mature or not. Generally, we all do decide it through one action, Like if someone lesser known than us has done something unnecessary or suppose he has cracked an unnecessary jokes which doesn't suits his/her age, at that very moment what we do is call him/her immature, rather than showing him/her what to do in stead of what s/he has done.
Maturity is nothing but knowledge. Knowledge of what to do, when to do, where to do, with whom to do etc. If someone has this knowledge then surely s/he is mature.
And most importantly, in stead of calling someone immature, try to show them what's is right to do, that's how s/he won't do unnecessary stuffs again. It's the duty of all those people who thinks themselves mature.
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