Be the first one to help yourself. You need your own help.
Whenever you are sad, broken, shattered, first you should give a chance to yourself to convince you rather than giving the chance to others. Others can't do what you can. But sad part is people don't try to convince themselves, they rely on others and they feel comfortable at it. Most of us feel comfortable when someone else shows sympathy to us, try to convince us, and when others try to console us. That's how we brought up and that's the situation around us.
To be honest, i feel these are unnecessary if and only you give efforts to make yourself clear about your situation. Yeah, some people are there and those peoples try to make your situation easy and try to make you laugh but that doesn't mean they'll be there forever. And it's also true that we promise each other like, " our relationship will last forever, friends forever, I'll be there for you every time", promises like these are true but to some extent but not fully. At some point of life people leave, and you'll be alone like before.
And it's also true that after one is gone another one comes.
Harsh truth!
But question is how long life will go like this ? Will you be satisfied if life goes on like this ?
If i talk about myself, i personally don't take it positively, but some people may take it positively. I don't want my life to be like that. People come, stay, some don't, some become close. But eventually everyone leaves. It's the nature of life.
So, it's better to be your own guide, your own teacher, own motivator, own counselor, and your own best friend.
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